Jun 30 2009
Graduation Ceremonies & Headaches!
If anyone who is “old school” like me has attended a high school graduation ceremony lately, I’m sure you were astonished by behaviors you witnessed.
I’m not even going to go down the path of appropriate attire for such an event. It will be sufficient to say that our society now finds blue jeans and low cut tops appropriate for EVERY venue.
But I do want to comment on how this school failed to control the screaming for every favorite student who crossed the stage. I had the misfortune to sit in the row right in front of several junior class girls. These girls had several favorite boys in the graduating class. I would have moved but I was seated with an entire row of my family members and really didn’t want to leave my seat. So I stuck it out, much to my own discomfort.
As luck would have it, the girl who had the loudest and highest pitched voice was directly behind me. Every time she shrieked, I felt a slight pain at the back of my head which then bounced across and hit my forehead. Interestingly, this pain occurred each time and in the exact same location in my head with every shriek. I did put my fingers against my ears to protect them from her brutal screeches but I hadn’t thought ahead and brought a helmet to protect my head! Finally, the whole event was over.
When it was over, I had a roaring headache and some slight nausea. I took some high powered aspirin and found it had NO EFFECT on this headache. I want to add that headaches are not something I suffer much from. A headache is a rare event for me.
Well, naturally, I figured a good night’s sleep would be the end of it. But I was so wrong!
The next day, I had a slightly different headache. In the exact spot on my forehead where I had felt the pain of her every shriek, there was now intense pain. I tried various pain relievers to no avail. I finally tried something I had in the house for cough suppression and chest congestion which brought some relief. I believe the section of my brain that was affected had swollen.
I am not often sick and can usually work through any minor aches and pains. But I tell you this same headache and nausea persisted for FOUR days.
My good friend and retired professional singer (coloratura soprano) had never heard of this happening to anyone. But both she and my husband thought that this girl’s shrieks were at just the right pitch and volume to cause this. In other words, as they said, if my head were glass, it would have shattered.
So, this is my warning to you. If you attend any events and feel such pain from the screaming around you - MOVE! And also, do what I did - complain to the group that held the event. This is really quite simple - make an announcement that excessive cheering for students will not be accepted and that such behavior may result in exclusion from the ceremony or re-seating. Then enforce the rule.
